Beyond Your Shell

Multiple Doors

Overcoming Uncertainty

January 23, 2017 | by Adam Weigand | category Self

Uncertainty is something I struggle with everyday.     I want to know what will happen.  I want everything to be perfect.     I know that someday I’ll be better, so maybe I’ll do it correctly then.  I get stuck thinking about the future, while missing the present.   It’s only human behavior to […]

Kids Playing

Being in the Moment

January 19, 2017 | by Adam Weigand | category Self

Have you ever been in the “zone”?     Where time passes quickly and you’re so lazer-focused that nothing else around you matters?   How does that feel?     There’s no stress or outside worry.  You’re completely focused regardless of the outcome.   Kids do this when they play.  They’re so engrossed in creating […]

People listening

The Most Critical Social Skill

January 12, 2017 | by Adam Weigand | category Self

Have you ever finished talking with someone and said to yourself “Wow, he really get me.” Or “She was really easy to talk to.”   Conversely, have you ever heard “You never listen to me”?  Maybe that person is actually saying “I don’t feel like you understand how I feel.”   What is different about […]

Chair

Just Start

July 26, 2016 | by Adam Weigand | category Self

I wanted this first post to be a well-written, interesting, and compelling work of art…but it’s not.   I had several ideas that I wanted to start with, some of them are semi-developed.   I thought, “soon, one of these ideas will be finished and I’ll finally hit the publish button.  I just need some more time […]